I broke his trust
This is a special requested post by Serene . She asked me to makea post about how do i usually move on . Before i go any further , here is a special note to Serene .
' Hey babe , from what you told me on th tag box , you said you have broken up with your boyf recently . All i just want to tell you is that everything depends on th reason to th break up . If you think that this break up is due to a small matter , then th both of you might have broken up too harshly or one of you are just tired already . This can be sorted out if th both of you can have a calm & good talk together . Whereas if this break up is due to a major issue , & if you think that it cant be mended anymore , let it go & show him that you're fine without him . Never let him know that you cant live without him or you are crying yourself to bed every night . This is what my mum taught me & initially , i took her words as bullshitting but now i realize th meaning to it . Well , this is just my personal opinion & to people who dont agree with me , i know you have your own opinion & everyone thinks differently . So dont hate . "
Now back to th main topic . I will talk about my personal experience & how do i actually overcome everything . I may sound like i'm lying if i were to say that i have been single for 1 year+ . Kinda unbelievable but true . I have been searching for my kind of guy but in this 1 year+ , i did manage to find probably about 2 to 3 of my kind of guy but it didnt work out for them . I have tried to observe th other guys who tried to chase after me to see if they are th right one for me . So i should say i've had flings . Dont judge . If they arent th one for me , i would slowly let them go . When they asked me for th answer , i wouldnt answer them right away because i never liked to hurt people . I know that by dragging it & not letting them know th answer will hurt them as well . I tried to look for th chemistry between me & them but i cant seem to find it at all . Then as time goes by , they will get tired of trying & leave . I'm not saying that i did th same for all th guys but i did ask them to go & look for their happiness . They refused & insisted on staying . So i still believed that one day they will give up trying & move on . As for th ones whom i had deep feelings for , & yet it didnt work out for them , i will get really really upset & down . I would keep trying until there is totally no hope in it . & how do i move on ? For me , i cannot fully move on until i meet th guy who has about th same standard as th previous one . & while in th time of searching , i would try to occupy myself & keep myself busy so that i'd stop thinking about it . Most of th time it didnt work & i will listen to sad songs & post sad statuses on my facebook as well as twitter . Or i would probably go hang out with friends . Be it shopping , or movie , or drinking , its all fine . So i could say that i'm pretty used to having shitty feelings like this & i'm pretty much tired . Serene , i'm sorry if this post is not helping you in any way . But i cant really help myself out either . But you can try hanging out with friends who are fun . Quit stalking him on facebook or twitter or even his whatsapp's last seen . I know its hard but thats th way to do it . I've tried it before & its really torturing . Hang on & bear with it . Let him know that you're having a great life even without him. It makes him wonder why arent you affected . It gets him curious . You understand me ? (: Good luck & cheer up sweety . We still have more heart breaks to come . Takecare !
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